Re: [MET] Can someone help with me a flight/movement phobia

Hi Jo, Thanks for that advice, I will also explore her feelings about her
hearing.
We haven't touched on that yet. She went deaf at the age of 2 and might
have some
residual feelings about that.

I was thinking today that she needs a live test. She also gets the same
sensations when
she is being driven in a car (she is OK when she drives herself). So I plan
to take her
out for a drive this week and soften and flow as we go....! I think a
practical demonstration
is definitely called for here.

Everyones input has been so appreciated. Where as I was feeling quite
deflated after
the appointment this week, I now can't wait to see her again.

Love
Kim

On Fri, Jul 18, 2008 at 10:05 AM, Joanne Frost <
yourtranquiljourney_at_yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

> rneyHi Kim,
> Your situation reminds very much of my case study earlier in the year as I
> qualified for EFT.
> I had a friend with impotence problems as well as facing redundancy and he
> was very hard of hearing.
> I found that I had to do a lot of emotinal work on his feeling towards his
> hearing, as although it did not effect directly his sexual ability, it did
> have underlying emotional issues in respect of confidence. The whole flight
> thing may also mask the underlying cause.
> Your clients hearing issues seem almost spererate, however i would be
> inclined to look at how her hearing makes her feel also.
> Secondly how does your client know it has not worked?
> Interestingly my case study came each week, and when I asked he said nope
> no change. However he met a new girl friend just afer I did some ET work
> with him ablout lowering shields. He reports that his sex life has never
> been better!!!
> Is there a way you could arrange to meet her at a local airport, tap about
> the awkwardness and feeling she has about thinking about it etc before hand,
> Actually try it out?
>
> Just a few thoughts on stuff I learned.... sorry if its case of teaching
> granny to suck eggs.
> Jo x
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: kims_heavens_touch <eftoffice_at_googlemail.com<eftoffice%40googlemail.com>
> >
> To: meridiantherapy_at_yahoogroups.com <meridiantherapy%40yahoogroups.com>
> Sent: Thursday, 17 July, 2008 9:08:42 PM
> Subject: [MET] Can someone help with me a flight/movement phobia
>
> I have seen a client twice about her phobia for movement (in
> particular flying) and I don't feel I am making enough headway. Part
> of her phobia stems from the fact that she is deaf in one ear and
> believes her internal balance is responsible for her body sensations
> (drop sensation in the stomach and giddiness)
>
> Can I have some advice please about clearing her belief sheilds about
> being free of her phobia as it is like concrete and I'm finding it
> very had to break it down. She has tried all manner of treatments
> before (hypno, counselling, flight simulation) and has spent thousands
> of pounds and nothing has worked. She has come to try ET and EFT but
> she believes it wont work and made that quite clear from the start.
>
> I have tried statements of "Even tho I'll never be free of this" and
> "Even tho I've tried all these things nothing has worked" and I've
> managed to get her down from 10 to 8 even with the gamut sequence. I
> can tell from her body language that she is still shielded and negative.
>
> We used ET on the first session and cleared her earliest memory. We
> even used ET to great success on running through in her mind being at
> the airport to actually taking off and landing in a plane. All body
> responses flowed some from her stomach and down the legs. On other
> things she had a complete total body response which we found the
> epicentre to be the head and released it.
>
> The trouble was one week later on her second appointment she was
> being negative and unable to focus, move or shift her blockages. And
> there seemed an unwillingness to even try. I explored where her
> beliefs are and she said in the head. When I tried to ET the feeling
> in her head her mind would not focus on it. Part of me thinks this is
> due to the fact that she had a shift and her Autogenic Universe is
> trying to cling on to her belief system and patterns of behaviour.
>
> I decided to move to EFT so that her mind had some words to focus on.
> I still don't feel I have managed to break through her barriers and
> it feels as though I need to tackle her belief mechanism as it is
> stopping me getting to the actual problem. She keeps telling me how
> hard she is, it's almost like she wants to defeat yet another therapy!
>
> I tried tapping on the actual fear that "even though I dread the body
> sensations" which started as a 10, but that only cleared to 8 after
> several rounds.
>
> Any ideas please would be gratefully appreciated. I am seeing her
> again next week.
>
> So many thanks
> Kim
>
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