[MT] Re: Network: Creating the Perfect Statements, II

Well, it will resonate for some, and it won't for others'. But if you're
trying to get rid of the problem, why do you want to own it? There's a
difference between taking responsibility and owning, isn't there? I
wouldn't get too hung up on this, Silvia, simply don't use the approach if
it doesn't work for you. I won't be insulted : - ) Love, Steph

At 10:33 PM 11/17/99 +0000, you wrote:
> > Please don't own your problem! (People don't like to lose stuff - which is
>why it is so difficult to "lose" weight). Replace "my" statements with
>"the" statements (ex: "my" weight, "my" phobia, and "my" fear becomes
>"the" weight, "the" phobia, and "the" fear, etc).
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>I have a serious problem with this approach. If you don't own your own
>problems, who on Earth does?
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>If people don't like to lose things, surely one could re-phrase the
>statements into something more appropriate and yet keep responsibility for
>the problem where it rightfully belongs - ie inside someone's very own
>neurology.
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>Comments please
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>Silvia
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>Silvia Hartmann-Kent CHABH MSNLP MAMT
>Director, United Kingdom Association For Meridian Therapies
>www.meridiantherapies.org.uk
>Moderator, meridiantherapy_at_egroups.com
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Received on Wed 17 Nov 1999 - 15:27:06 GMT