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The Enneagram and MET as Complementary Tools

by Peter Delves

The Enneagram and MET as Complementary Tools

Exploring Different Worlds If you decided to tour the world, would you want to know which country you were in? I guess that you would – but why? Why not treat each place and each person as you find them? Well, it would be easier to navigate and communicate if you knew where you were! And at the same time you would still recognise that each person that you meet is an individual and not a stereotype. The same applies to the Enneagram personality system, which informs us that there are nine fundamental personality styles, which you might think of as “psychological nationalities”.

If you work with people, it is extremely helpful to be able to recognise their personality style, just as a traveler you might find it helpful to know if you were communicating with an Italian or a Nigerian. By understanding “where a person is coming from” you will be far more effective in whatever capacity you work with them. By knowing your own Enneagram style, you open the door to profound personal development.

What is the Enneagram?

The Enneagram is a very powerful model for developing insight and understanding of ourselves and others. It is used as a practical tool for spiritual development, personal development, and improving relationships. It has been described as the bridge between psychology and spirituality, and by combining it with Meridian Energy Therapies you then have both a map and a vehicle for profound change.

The Enneagram describes nine very different ways of viewing the world. Each style has its own talents, gifts and limitations. Each style has different motivations, often unconscious, that lead to behaviour patterns, some of which help us - and others that cause problems. Fortunately we now have some great techniques within the field of Meridian Energy Therapies to address problem emotions, self-limiting beliefs and negative behaviour patterns. What the Enneagram does is to help you to identify and recognise the issues which have to be addressed.

You might be forgiven for thinking that the Enneagram serves to put us in a box or restrict us. Instead it shows us how we may be restricted already – and how to be more free.

The Enneagram Model

The diagram below represents the Enneagram. Because it is a dynamic model, people can move to different places. In fact another way to think about it is that we have all nine parts within us, however we have a preferred base. You can see that for any type there are lines leading to two other types. One of these is where a person is likely to go under stress and the other is where they can find themselves when feeling very secure. Also we are also influenced to some extent by the types either side (known as wings).

 

Typical Characteristics

  1. The Reformer: Perfectionist. Tidy. Principled. Rational. Self-controlled.

  2. The Helper: Caring. Helpful. Kind. Generous. Possessive.

  3. The Achiever: Effective. Speedy. Adaptable. Ambitious. Image-conscious.

  4. The Individualist: Artistic. Emotional. Melancholic. Intuitive. Self-absorbed

  5. The Investigator: Clever. Intellectual. Introverted. Perceptive. Detached.

  6. The Loyalist: Doubtful. Loyal. Engaging. Responsible. Defensive.

  7. The Enthusiast: Positive. Fun. Upbeat. Accomplished. Impulsive.

  8. The Challenger: Determined. Bossy. Self-confident. Decisive. Domineering.

  9. The Peacemaker: Peaceful. Comfortable. Understanding. Receptive. Complacent.

Guiding Personal Development

In general people encounter problems when they are too fixated in one point of view. This concept is acknowledged in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) where the aim is to become healthier and more resourceful by expanding one’s ‘map of the world’. In TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique) the technique includes the contemplation of opposites so we have access to a wider range of possibilities and choices.

The same principles underpin the Enneagram. It provides a real clarity to where we are and where we need to go in order to lead more fulfilling lives. But insight alone is not always enough, no matter how profound. That’s where Meridian Energy Therapies come in, in providing the means to move in the direction that the Enneagram has indicated.

Enneagram Training and The Hero’s Journey

Each of the nine types have challenges to their personal development, and in Greek mythology Homer’s Odysseus encountered each challenge in turn, before he could find his way home to Ithaca. During the two day training “The Enneagram in Action” we will use the hero’s journey as a theme to understand the Enneagram, explore individual challenges and identify how to overcome them.

Finding Out More

The next Enneagram in Action weekend is on the 11th & 12th July. Enquires to Peter Delves (01926) 856746 Website: www.delves.co.uk

Posted May 18, 2009 by Peter Delves   
Peter Delves

Peter Delves

 


Peter Delves
MCIPD, MNCH (Acc.), CTAMT


Q. You seem to provide a diverse range of services. How do they all fit together?

Peter. Well I divide my time between three areas, notably seeing private clients, professional training for therapists and delivering in-house training courses for organisations. The common theme throughout is enabling people to overcome limitations and develop skills. So while it may seem a diverse range it all does fit from my point of view!

Q. How did you arrive at doing what you do now?

Peter. About 20 years ago I was working as a Human Resources Manager for a Social Services Department. My role included ill-health visits for staff who were on long-term sickness absence due to stress. In many cases they had to retire on ill-health grounds. I felt at the time that there were other options available to help people recover and started to explore the whole nature of stress and different approaches to resolving it – even if they didn’t seem conventional.

This led me to taking training in clinical hypnotherapy and subsequently joining the National Council for Hypnotherapy. After qualifying I set up my private practice and continued to learn new techniques and approaches, notably NLP (Neuro-Linguistic programming). My human resources background (CIPD qualified) had equipped me with training skills and experience and a former employer, Leicester City Council, approached me to run a stress management training course for them.

It turned out to be a great success and I have continued to run courses for them, and many other organisations, ever since. In 1998 I started to hear about new techniques which apparently were getting incredible results. These came under the umbrella of “meridian energy therapies” and I trained in TFT (Thought Field Therapy) and then EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). I discovered that what I had heard wasn’t just hype and started to get impressive results with clients very quickly. From 1999 I became an appointed trainer for the AMT (Association for Meridian Energy Therapies) and subsequently a trainers’ trainer.

Q. How long have you been practising in Kenilworth?

Peter. I’ve been here since 1999. Prior to being in Kenilworth I was running the practice in Leicester from 1990. In that time I reckon I've worked with over 4000 clients.

Q. What issues do clients see you for mostly?

Peter. Although I work with a variety of problems, the most frequent issues that I help resolve are anxiety states of one type or another. These can be experienced in the form of panic attacks, phobias and work-related stress problems. It is very rewarding when I receive feedback from people who find that they can be relaxed in previously threatening situations, whether that is in the workplace, social situations or flying in a plane. It’s also great to help people stop smoking too!

Q. How do corporate clients respond to your more unorthodox methods such as EFT?

Peter. I don’t always include EFT on my stress management training for corporate clients if I think they would prefer a more conservative approach. When I do introduce it, people are very enthusiastic. They just can’t ignore the results. Warwick University Business School even commissioned me to run stress management workshops based around EFT which was very successful.

Q. Who are your associates?

Peter. My principal associate is Julie Gallimore. Her specialist areas include delivering training to organisations in Work-life Balance, Stress Management Skills, Coping with Change and Counselling Skills at Work. She also provides career consultancy for organisations whose employees are experiencing change, or needing to develop skills.

There are other associates who assist me from time to time with the delivery of training in EFT and the other meridian energy therapies.

Q. How do you see your work developing in the future?

Peter. I am already bringing some new ideas to fruition. For the corporate world I am working on a training called “Working Smarter” which will be about updating time management techniques for the 21st Century to help reduce stress and be more efficient.

Another new development is “EFT & The Enneagram.” The Enneagram is a fascinating model of human nature which provides great insights into personality styles, motivation patterns and directions for personal development. One more area of work which I will be developing further is helping sports men and women and musicians to maximise performance.

So the next 20 years looks as busy as the last!

You can contact Peter by calling (01926) 856746 or by e-mail

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