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The
client, who we shall
call Mrs Brown had come to see me wondering if EFT could help relieve
the pain in her leg. At the age of sixty-six, this painful vein
which the client, although undiagnosed, referred to as a varicose
vein had plagued her for almost twelve years. It often became dark,
raised and painful after standing for a period of time. This was the
first time Mrs Brown had ever used EFT so I spent some time with her
before treatment to reassure her. I also encouraged her to be very
aware of thoughts, feelings and images that came to her during
treatment as many clients on their first session can ignore what they
are being presented with, because they think it is insignificant.
To
start with we focused
on the current pain present in the leg which Mrs Brown rated as a
nine out of ten subjective units of discomfort. It was incredibly
painful. I asked if the pain in her leg could be an emotion what it
might be. She felt that it was an ‘angry pain’. I used standard
EFT to work it down from a nine to a zero point five. The client
then had an image of a silver waterfall but was unable to identify
what it was about. As we worked on, the image changed to ‘a
magnificent lion’. Mrs Brown was actually laughing at this point
because it seemed so silly and almost random, but I was aware that
something must have been unravelling. We tapped for the image of the
lion and Mrs Brown had giggled somewhat throughout, until suddenly I
saw the laughter leave her face completely. Whatever had come up was
obviously considerably serious. She was very aware of an image of
‘watchful eyes’. I asked what they might represent and she said
that she didn’t know but that they were watching her very closely.
Suddenly Mrs Brown said, ‘I know what it is – it’s my mother,’
and became emotional and tearful at this realisation. I then
intervened and took over, using a technique called heart math
breathing to calm her. When the emotion had reduced I used ‘matrix
re-imprinting’ created by EFT master Karl Dawson which is actually
used for inner child work (parts of the consciousness that split off
from the rest following a trauma experienced by the child). Usually,
with this method I would guide the client to tap on the younger image
of themselves which dissolves emotion and trauma incredibly quickly. On
this occasion I guided Mrs Brown to tap on the image of her mother
while discussing what she felt was necessary. Mrs Brown had been
angry at her mother for a long time, feeling controlled and
inadequate since she was a child. However, since her mother had died
15 years previously, these feelings had stayed within her and she was
unable to resolve them. She apologised for being angry at her mother
and told her that she loved her. It was an emotional but incredible
experience for Mrs Brown to tell her mother things that she wasn’t
able to when she was alive.
As we
finished I asked
what her mother was doing in her leg – she said that she felt it
was because she had held onto the anger for so long that she couldn’t
move on. That statement had such significance within EFT because the
legs can be related to ‘moving forward’ and Mrs Brown was totally
unaware of that.
It
validated to me so
strongly the connection between emotions and the physical body, which
admittedly hadn’t been so concrete before. Now I look for the
emotional contributors to the illnesses and ailments of my patients
in every case, because it proved to me that the body truly uses
metaphors to express what is going on inside. I hope that after
reading this article you will investigate the metaphors being
expressed within yourselves, for better health and understanding of
the most incredible system on earth – your body.
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